Learning to be a father and husband is a real struggle.
Trying to figure yourself out while you are trying to figure out the women you love is a real confusing time. My wife and I got together in our early twenties. At that point in time, the only thing I knew about relationships was the vision my parents had provided me. You eventually learn that what you see from the sample your parents give you is not the whole picture.
All the time I see new dads just gushing over their brand new baby girls. It’s almost like the love is flowing right out of him into this little girl. It is a beautiful thing to see and from what I have experienced, it is one of the most wonderful feelings on earth. But guess what, dad – she is getting married and that is going to cost you a lot of money.
Studies show that the more choices we have to make the more we want to go into a little corner and only stick to the things we know. It is just who we are as human.
I plan to jump in on this debate but not quite the way you think I will. Let me start by saying I am personally a product of public schooling. We can argue whether or not my school adequately prepared me for life, but I would like to think that most people would point to me and say, he did alright.
I cannot stand debt. There is no doubt about it I cannot stand it. I personally think that having debt controls you to the point that you can’t live the best kind of life you can live.
I know me telling you not to worry about dying tomorrow is not going to make you stop worrying about dying tomorrow. However, when it comes to making the social security decision, I hope you worry more about living for a long time.
You should think about your future a lot. If you are only thinking one day out, you have already lost. This game of life is like chess, not checkers. You should be thinking about where you want to be financially, physically, and mentally, constantly.
You should think about your future a lot. If you are only thinking one day out, you have already lost. This game of life is like chess, not checkers. You should be thinking about where you want to be financially, physically, and mentally, constantly.
You should think about your future a lot. If you are only thinking one day out, you have already lost. This game of life is like chess, not checkers. You should be thinking about where you want to be financially, physically, and mentally, constantly.
A starter mentor can be a forever mentor – you just have to get a mentor. What they are telling you isn’t Gospel, but they should be pointing you in the right direction. Do the best you can to qualify them, and as you start to listen to them, you should find that you are finally seeing results.
